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Is it something that should happen?

  1. Yes, but only let him see her in a thong bikini.

    6 vote(s)
    3.9%
  2. Yes, but only let him see her topless.

    3 vote(s)
    1.9%
  3. Yes, he can see her naked only

    9 vote(s)
    5.8%
  4. Yes, up to and including the lapdance, but no touching.

    9 vote(s)
    5.8%
  5. Yes, up to and including the lapdance including touching.

    10 vote(s)
    6.5%
  6. Yes, including the masturbation.

    12 vote(s)
    7.7%
  7. Yes, including the masturbation and he can touch her at the same time.

    30 vote(s)
    19.4%
  8. She should be allowed to do more.

    122 vote(s)
    78.7%
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  1. SpiceCo

    SpiceCo Porn Surfer

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    Hi everyone, new to the forum and looking for a little advice:

    My best friend is in a love less marriage and I know he doesn't get any from his wife. His wife used to be quite hot but for years now she has let herself go and is now quite overweight.

    He is due to come and visit me and my wife later this year when its possible again (lives in another country).
    My wife is in her thirties, hot, great ass, natural tanned skin, dark hair.

    My wife is a little bit of an exhibitionist already. She loves wearing nothing at the beach or just tiny bikini thongs. She loves it when she gets photographed by anyone and loves sharing her pics.

    The other night while we were fucking she asked about my mate and if things had gotten any better for him. I told her they had not.

    I said something like 'imagine what he would be like if he saw your tits when he was here after not seeing any sexy women in person for so many years'.
    She smiled.
    'Would you let him see you naked when he's here?'
    'yeah, I would'.
    'would you like it?' I continued.
    'yeah'
    I kept asking questions. She said she would be ok with giving him a lapdance while she is naked and it would be ok for him to touch her ass and tits.

    She said she would be ok giving us both a show where she masturbated in front of both of us. She even told me that she would masturbate in different positions for us to him a full show.

    This discussion has happened a few times now and she seems really into it.

    Just wondered if any of you had a similar experience and have an opinion about whether it would be a good idea or not.
     
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    1. Georgia Honey Pot
      No kissing! I let my ex share some of my girlfriends and my one rule was for him not to kiss her/them or cum in them(didnt want us paying some other bitch child support lol). Never behind your back either.
       
      Georgia Honey Pot, Feb 8, 2021
    2. mnpeekn
      Go for it. Talk about how far you both are willing to let things go. Also realize thoughs boundaries may change when the fun starts.
       
      mnpeekn, Feb 9, 2021
    3. NEOhioGuy
      I think it's great that you want to help out your buddy, and fulfill some of your wife's and your fantasies. Get a Swinging Book to ensure you have all bases covered with regards to making rules and discussing what each is okay with and not okay with. The book will dive into subjects you may not even have thought of. It's amazing how you don't think of things until it has already happened and then you or her are saying, "I never agreed to that" even though it was never discussed.

      Do you give her permission to fuck your friend if it goes that far? Is your marriage strong, no jealousy? Are you prepared to lose your wife and/or your BF as a result of this. Get a book/manual on how to set up rules etc, and make sure you have a conversation with your buddy regarding the ground rules before anything starts.

      Good luck!!! Very Hot when it works out well!!!
       
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  2. On the road

    On the road Sex Lover

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    Sounds like she is into him to bring him up during sex I would go lightly unless it turns you on to share your wife
     
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    1. SpiceCo
      Fair comment - thanks.
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
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  3. BeerandTacos

    BeerandTacos Sex Lover

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    I'd say cut the poor guy some slack. Being in a sexless marriage myself, I think at least let her suck you both off after the lapdance.
     
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    1. SpiceCo
      yeah - should have had that as an option in the poll. Thanks
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
    2. dirtyoleman1
      Would you enjoy seeing your wife suck his cock? If so, would you want him to cum in her mouth or pull out and cover her face and tits with his cum?
       
      dirtyoleman1, Feb 8, 2021
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    3. SpiceCo
      Not sure if it should go that far, but if so, probably not in the mouth.
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
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  4. Kenrychard

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    Wife and I had a friend whos wife gave up sex when she was diagnosed with MS. She wasn't yet physically incapable, she just gave up, and he was feeling it was really unfair. Well, my wife and I had already done some outside of marriage sex adventures, so we decided to offer him sex with my wife if he just couldn't live with his forced celibacy. When it came to decision time, and he was unsure, my wife showered with him, just intimacy with no sexual expectations. The intimacy and the promise of an opportunity for more gave him a new perspective, he let go of being angry that sex was taken from him and saw instead that it could be HIS choice. And he did choose, he chose to remain steadfast to her and give sex up for her and their marriage. It was the right choice for him and he's now been OK with it for years. Personally, I think intimacy, including sex but not just sex, is food water and air to a relationship. If one partner just quits, without at least seeking medical advice or counseling, that partner is already betraying the marriage. But that's just my opinion, and you along with your friend should really be clear with each other what your intentions and feelings are. If our friend had chosen differently, and slept with my wife, once or regularly, we would have been more than fine with it. I would have thought it was incredibly sexy as well as compassionate, we had already had multi partner sexual experiences just for the sake of sex, doing it for a friend we cared for would have been easy.
    In your situation you should consider whether your friend can actually do this without then feeling shame or guilt. And if its actually going to help him. Some guys would be thrilled to masturbate while watching a lovely women, in person, masturbate for his pleasure. But to others it could be emotional foreplay, increasing his frustration and need.. if you are going to go that far with him and this happens, are you willing to just go all the way and get him laid? So like the previous poster said, if you don't have positive feelings for yourself, your wife and your friend about what COULD happen then you need to be completely honest with yourself about it. And of course you ALL need to be honest with each other about it as well.
     
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    1. notdescriptive
      Giving your friend a 'shower' opportunity seems a very gentle and perceptive way of letting him decide. His decision met his ethics. I'm impressed by both.
       
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    2. SpiceCo
      Yes, another good option.
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
    3. Sonnylee
      Well said perspective
       
      Sonnylee, Feb 9, 2021
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  5. speakeasy

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    He's not getting any and she wants to let him look?
    Seems kind of cruel treatment for a friend.
     
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    1. SpiceCo
      I put a number of options in the poll, but possibly I should have allowed for free text answers too. I`ll keep that in mind if I ever have to do another. Thanks
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
    2. speakeasy
      All of your poll options are "yes" with some variables.
      "Is it something that should happen" is primarily a "yes" or "no" question but there were no "no" choices.
      Seems like biased research.
       
      speakeasy, Feb 8, 2021
    3. SpiceCo
      Completely agree. My original list of choices included a 'no', but through being not familiar with this site I managed to mess up my first attempt at the post. Serious error that does indeed undermine the result balance
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
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  6. Sweetpassion

    Sweetpassion Pink gum drops.

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    Man, threads like this always get me thinking deeply. I'm not saying i'm a saint and have never been unfaithful. I'm not saying it was right either. I'm also not saying i've never experienced the pain of being cheated on cause i have. But i just couldn't imagine how hurt i would feel. If i was cheated on cause i couldn't have sex due to a medical issue or was not feeling up for it. How it would feel. If i were in that position. That would have to be just heartbreaking. Also makes me think about if i was with someone that suddenly couldn't ever have sex again and if that were the only issue in our relationship. I know how badly i would crave sex and to feel intimacy. You would feel you need those things.

    But i truly don't know if i could be with someone else to feel those things. Not in such conditions. But at the same time i do completely understand people longing and feeling weak in those times. That would all just be so hard. I could put myself in either position and all of it would just hurt.
     
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    1. SpiceCo
      Good thoughts - thanks for the insight. Agree, not an easy choice.
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
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    2. NEOhioGuy
      I suffered for over 10 years with my wife who was no longer interested in sex, and prior to that, she was a very selfish partner. I should have divorced her after year one. Although I didn't cheat on her, I find it incredulous that anyone would blame me if I sought sex/intimacy with another woman. For me, communication, caring for your partner and intimacy/sex are the cornerstones to a successful relationship. Both partners need to be GGG or they shouldn't be together as one of them will be resentful.
       
      NEOhioGuy, Feb 13, 2021
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  7. Backspin25

    Backspin25 Sex Machine

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    This is insane. I can understand a medical issue and the wife has given her blessing but its ok to cheat because ‘she has let herself go’ is mind boggling. I say cheat as your Mrs definitely sounds like she would fuck this guy guven the opportunity. Which is cool if thats what you want, but i’m pretty sure ‘she has let herself go’ won’t have a clue.
     
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    1. NEOhioGuy
      Obviously there is a lot of background story that we don't know about. One could say she has failed her marriage by allowing herself to become unappealing to her husband, and that goes both ways. We don't know if he already tried to communicate his unhappiness, if he tried to lead her to a more healthy lifestyle with exercise and healthy food. We don't know if she just doesn't need him anymore and no longer wants sex, maybe now that she has her home, has her 2.3 kids, friend is now just a paycheck to her. If he has exhausted all efforts to remedy his relationship, he should probably get divorced. Unfortunately, as I experienced, the longer you are in a marriage, the greater chance that you stay stagnant in an unhappy relationship rather than move on. Children and co-mingled assets/finances further make it difficult to walk away.
       
      NEOhioGuy, Feb 13, 2021
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  8. SpiceCo

    SpiceCo Porn Surfer

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    I possibly should have included other options in the poll. Thanks for the feedback
     
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  9. SpiceCo

    SpiceCo Porn Surfer

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    Good thoughts - thanks.
     
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  10. LastOfTheJedi

    LastOfTheJedi Resident Skeptic

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    I honestly think that if you really wanted to “help him out,” your wife should consider allowing him to have sex with her. Condoms if she so desired. The rest as you describe in your OP is just a tease, and would make him feel even worse. Serious reply here.
     
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  11. Chief Hu

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    Hey good buddy, when are you going to invite me over?
     
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  12. PeterBHardenuf

    PeterBHardenuf Porn Star

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    Sounds like a 3 sum in the works. Hope everything works out for you.
     
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  13. formerlyRC

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    This sounds like a really bad thing .

    Rather than this idiotic idea, why don't you make his stay really wonderful in a wholly non sexual way. Buy in some good wine or beers, make sure you cook him his favourite food, take him out somewhere fun, watch sport together, hang out chill out and catch up.

    Rubbing his nose in it by having your wife parade around naked so he can feel really shit about going back to his sexless marriage knowing you have a sexual freak for a wife isn't being a friend to him at all. It isn't going to cheer him up, it isn't going to cheer his wife up if ever she were to find out.

    This might sound good on the surface but really it is misjudged. What he needs are two proper friends who show him consideration, respect and decency.

    You don't know why his wife isn't having sex with him but whatever the issue is it isn't for you to try and fix.

    Pour him a beer and listen to him would be a far better way to go
     
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  14. Christophel

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    Can I be a friend of you and your wife?
     
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  15. dirtyd7586

    dirtyd7586 Porno Junky

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    So, if this is up for discussion, personally, flaunting around your wife to a guy in a sexless marriage is probably worse than the sexless marriage. I don't know your exact situation but if you're going to do anything like that, let the guy fuck your wife or do nothing remotely sexual at all. Just my opinion here. I would just keep it friends and hang out. Seems your wife is cool with letting him have sex with her. Me and the wife play outside the marriage and it's fine, the trust is there, it's fun. And if you guys are like that then go for it. If not, I wouldn't tread down that path.
     
    1. SpiceCo
      Completely agree. My original list of choices included a 'no', but through being not familiar with this site I managed to mess up my first attempt at the post. Serious error that does indeed undermine the result balance.
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
    2. SpiceCo
      Sorry, wrong reply, which somewhat gives weight to my statement.
      Thanks for the valid reply. Appreciated.
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
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  16. Jameson77

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    I hope once you decide and it happens that you'll update us?!

    My wife and I always play a game when my mates come over... We make sure she's dressed a bit slutty, like low cut top, short skirt, no pants etc.

    They're always checking her out, having a good look... who wouldn't?!

    We've always said that if there was the possibility of it going further when they're round, then we'd just go with the flow and let it happen!

    We love the idea of sharing her, so a gangbang would be perfect!

    They all have boring wives... basically the only time they get sex is on special occasions so they must all be gagging for some proper action.

    The idea of my wife becoming their 'secret' really turns her on! Turns me on too to be honest!

    She'd be their fuck/cum bucket. All holes would be allowed! I can't wait! She can't wait! So let's wait and see what happens.
     
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    1. SpiceCo
      For sure I`ll let people know, if nothing more than to help others in a similar positions. Given current travel restrictions however, it may be a little while.
       
      SpiceCo, Feb 8, 2021
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  17. Ilikestroking

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    If you're all concenting adults do it if that's what both of you want
     
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  18. bilezmilf

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    i would stick to letting him see her naked.
     
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  19. Scott1120

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    If she wants to help and you're open to it, let her do what she wants
     
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  20. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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    Your wife would like to have your friend see her naked, she's ok giving him a lapdance, with him touching her tits and ass, then finishing the evening by masturbating for both of you

    That's not helping a friend. That's giving a friend blue balls. A blow job helps, it always helps.

    You call yourself a friend ;)
     
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